{"id":3909,"date":"2013-07-13T01:52:08","date_gmt":"2013-07-13T01:52:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost\/?p=3909"},"modified":"2013-07-13T01:52:08","modified_gmt":"2013-07-13T01:52:08","slug":"01-5-january-1955-vol-07-questions-and-answers-volume-07","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/worksofthemotherandsriaurobindo.org\/index.php\/02-works-of-the-mother\/01-cwmce\/07-questions-and-answers-volume-07\/01-5-january-1955-vol-07-questions-and-answers-volume-07","title":{"rendered":"-01_5 January 1955.htm"},"content":{"rendered":"<table border=\"0\" cellpadding=\"6\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse\" width=\"100%\">\n<tr>\n<td>\n<div class=\"Section1\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><b><i><br \/>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"3\">5 January 1955 <\/font> <\/span><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"2\">This talk is<br \/>\nbased upon Sri Aurobindo&#8217;s Bases of<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><span><font size=\"2\">\u00a0<\/font><\/span><font size=\"2\">Yoga, Chapter 3, \u201cIn Difficulty\u201d<\/font><\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"2\">. <\/font> <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><i><br \/>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><br \/>\n<font size=\"3\">Sweet Mother, how can we<br \/>\ncreate \u201cthe attunement of the nature with the working of the Divine Light and<br \/>\nPower\u201d? <\/font> <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>How<br \/>\ncan you do it? By trying. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.25in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>First you must be conscious of the kind of attunement you want to<br \/>\nrealise. You must become aware of the points where this harmony does not exist;<br \/>\nyou must feel them and understand the contradiction between the inner<br \/>\nconsciousness and certain outer movements. You must become conscious of this<br \/>\nfirst, and once you are conscious of it, you try to adapt the outer action,<br \/>\nouter movements to the inner ideal. But first of all you must become aware of<br \/>\nthe disharmony. For there are many people who think that everything is going<br \/>\nwell; and if they are told, \u201cNo, your outer nature is in contradiction with<br \/>\nyour inner aspiration\u201d, they protest. They are not aware. Therefore, the first<br \/>\nstep is to become aware, to become conscious of what is not in tune.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.25in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>To begin with, most people will say, \u201cWhat is this inner consciousness<br \/>\nyou are telling me about? I don&#8217;t know it!\u201d So, obviously, they cannot<br \/>\nestablish any harmony if they are not even conscious of something within which<br \/>\nis higher than their ordinary consciousness. This means that many preparatory<br \/>\nstages are needed, preparatory states of awareness, before being ready for this<br \/>\nharmonisation. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.25in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>You must first of all know what the inner aim of the being is, the<br \/>\naspiration, the descending force, what receives it \u2013 everything must become<br \/>\nconscious. And then, afterwards, you must look at the outer movements in the<br \/>\nlight of this inner conscious-<\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='margin:0;text-align:center;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"3\">Page &#8211;<br \/>\n1<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='text-align:center'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:11.0pt'><\/p>\n<hr size=\"2\" width=\"100%\" align=\"center\">\n<p><\/span><\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>ness<br \/>\nand see what is in tune and what is not. And then, when you have seen what does<br \/>\nnot harmonise, you must gather the will and aspiration to change it and begin<br \/>\nwith the easiest part. You should not begin with the most difficult thing, you<br \/>\nshould begin with the easiest, the one you understand best, most easily, the<br \/>\ndisharmony which seems most evident to you. Then from there, gradually, you<br \/>\nwill go to the more difficult and more central things\u2026 Why do you happen to<br \/>\ntwist your ankle?&#8230; &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='margin:0;text-align:center'><i><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>( Silence)<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify'><i><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>Mother, last time you<br \/>\nsaid that the hostile forces are going to strike a last blow this year. If the<br \/>\nearth is not capable of winning the victory\u2026<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>The<br \/>\nearth? Did I say the earth? <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify'><i><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>The earth, India and<br \/>\nindividuals<\/span><\/i><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>Yes,<br \/>\nit is possible, it is a way of speaking. And so, if we are not able to win the<br \/>\nvictory \u2026?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify'><i><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>Does this mean that the<br \/>\npossibility of transformation will be delayed? <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>Delayed<br \/>\nperhaps by several centuries. This is precisely what the adverse forces are<br \/>\ntrying to bring about, and so far they have always succeeded \u2013 in putting off<br \/>\nthe thing. Always they have succeeded. \u201cThis will be for another time\u201d, and the<br \/>\nother time \u2026 perhaps after hundreds or thousands of years. And this is what<br \/>\nthey want to try to do once again. Perhaps all this is decreed somewhere. It is<br \/>\npossible. But it is also possible that though it is decided, in order that the<br \/>\nthing may take place as it ought to it is not good to reveal what is decided.<br \/>\nThere are many things like that, because people are neither conscious enough<br \/>\nnor pure<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='margin:0;text-align:center;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"3\">Page \u2013<br \/>\n2<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='text-align:center'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:11.0pt'><\/p>\n<hr size=\"2\" width=\"100%\" align=\"center\">\n<p><\/span><\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>enough<br \/>\nto do what they should do, exactly as they should do it, with full knowledge of<br \/>\nthe result; for the result, ninety-nine times out of a hundred, is not what<br \/>\nthey desire \u2013 or if it is what they desire, it is modified, it is mixed,<br \/>\ndiluted, there are differences, differences enough not to be fully<br \/>\nsatisfactory. So if one knew ahead exactly what was going to happen, one would<br \/>\nremain seated, quietly, and would do nothing any longer. One would say, \u201cGood,<br \/>\nif this must happen, it is good, I have nothing more to do.\u201d That is why one<br \/>\ndoesn&#8217;t know. But he who can act in all circumstances in full knowledge of the<br \/>\ncause, knowing what the result of his action will be, and at the same time can<br \/>\ndo a certain thing which is sometimes even in contradiction with this result,<br \/>\nthat person indeed can know. But I don&#8217;t think there are many like that. In<br \/>\nordinary life people say that for someone to realise something, he ought always<br \/>\nto aim much farther than the goal he has to attain; that all who have realised<br \/>\nsomething in life, all the great men who have created, realised something,<br \/>\ntheir aim, their ambition, their plan was always much greater, vaster, more<br \/>\ncomplete, more total than what they did. They always fell short of their<br \/>\nexpectation and hope. It is a weakness, but it comes from what I said, that<br \/>\nunless one has a very great ideal before him and the hope of realising it, one<br \/>\ndoesn&#8217;t put out all the energies of the being and therefore doesn&#8217;t do what is<br \/>\nnecessary to attain even the nearest goal, except, as I said, when one can act<br \/>\nwith the clear vision that \u201cthis is what ought to be done\u201d and without the<br \/>\nslightest worry about the consequences and the result of what one does; but<br \/>\nthis is difficult.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><span><font size=\"3\">\u00a0<\/font><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\"><span><font size=\"3\">\u00a0<\/font><\/span><i><font size=\"3\">Sweet Mother, what does \u201ca Cou\u00e9istic optimism\u201d mean?<br \/>\n<\/font> <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\"><font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\">Ah! Cou\u00e9.<br \/>\nYou don&#8217;t know the story of Cou\u00e9? Cou\u00e9 was a doctor. He used to treat by<br \/>\npsychological treatment, auto-suggestion, and he called this the true working<br \/>\nof the imagination; and what he defined as imagination was faith. And so he<br \/>\ntreated <\/span><br \/>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><br \/>\n<font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='margin:0;text-align:center;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"3\">Page \u2013<br \/>\n3<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='text-align:center'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:11.0pt'><\/p>\n<hr size=\"2\" width=\"100%\" align=\"center\">\n<p><\/span><\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\">all his<br \/>\npatients in this way: they had to make a kind of imaginative formation which<br \/>\nconsisted in thinking themselves cured or in any case on the way to being<br \/>\ncured, and in repeating this formation to themselves with sufficient<br \/>\npersistence for it to have its effect. He had very remarkable results. He cured<br \/>\nlots of people; only, he failed also, and perhaps these were not very lasting<br \/>\ncures, I don&#8217;t know this. But in any case, this made many people reflect on<br \/>\nsomething that&#8217;s quite true and of capital importance: that the mind is a<br \/>\nformative instrument and that if one knows how to use it in the right way, one<br \/>\ngets a good result. He observed \u2013 and I think it is true, my observation agrees<br \/>\nwith his \u2013 that people spend their time thinking wrongly. Their mental activity<br \/>\nis almost always half pessimistic, and even half destructive. They are all the<br \/>\ntime thinking of and foreseeing bad things which may happen, troublesome<br \/>\nconsequences of what they have done, and they construct all kinds of<br \/>\ncatastrophes with an exuberant imagination which, if it were utilised in the<br \/>\nother way, would naturally have opposite and more satisfying results.<span>\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.25in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>If you observe yourself, if you\u2026 how to put it?\u2026 if you catch yourself<br \/>\nthinking \u2013 well, if you do it suddenly, if you look at yourself thinking all of<br \/>\na sudden, spontaneously, unexpectedly, you will notice that nine times out of<br \/>\nten you are thinking something troublesome. It is very rarely that you are<br \/>\nthinking about harmonious, beautiful, constructive, happy things, full of hope,<br \/>\nlight and joy; you will see, try the experiment. Suddenly stop and look at<br \/>\nyourself thinking, just like that: put a screen in front of your thought and<br \/>\nlook at yourself thinking, off-hand, you will see this at least nine times out<br \/>\nof ten, and perhaps more. (It is very rarely, very rarely that one has in the<br \/>\nwhole day, suddenly, a dazzling thought about what is going to happen or the<br \/>\nstate one is in or the things one wants to do or the course of his life or<br \/>\nworld circumstances \u2013 it depends, you see, on your preoccupation). Well, you<br \/>\nwill see, it is almost always foreseeing a bigger or smaller, more or less vast<br \/>\ncatastrophe.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='margin:0;text-align:center;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"3\">Page \u2013<br \/>\n4 <\/font> <\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='text-align:center'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:11.0pt'><\/p>\n<hr size=\"2\" width=\"100%\" align=\"center\">\n<p><\/span><\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.25in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>Say you have the slightest thing that is not getting on quite well; if<br \/>\nyou think of your body, it is always that something unpleasant is going to<br \/>\nhappen to it \u2013 because when everything goes well, you don&#8217;t think about it !<br \/>\nYou will notice this: that you act, you do all that you have to do, without<br \/>\nhaving a single thought about your body, and when all of a sudden you wonder<br \/>\nwhether there isn&#8217;t anything that&#8217;s going wrong, whether there is some<br \/>\nuneasiness or a difficulty, something, then you begin to think of your body and<br \/>\nyou think about it with anxiety and begin to make your disastrous<br \/>\nconstructions. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.25in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>Whereas Cou\u00e9 recommended\u2026 It was in this way that he cured his patients;<br \/>\nhe was a doctor, he told them, \u201cYou are going to repeat to yourself: \u2018I am<br \/>\nbeing cured, gradually I am getting cured&#8217; and again, you see, \u2018I am strong, I<br \/>\nam quite healthy and I can do this, I can do that\u2019.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.25in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>I knew someone who was losing her hair disastrously, by handfuls. She<br \/>\nwas made to try this method. When combing her hair she made herself think, \u201cMy<br \/>\nhair will not fall out.\u201d The first and second time it did not work, but she<br \/>\ncontinued and each time before combing the hair she used to repeat with<br \/>\ninsistence, \u201cI am going to comb my hair but it won&#8217;t fall out.\u201d And within a<br \/>\nmonth her hair stopped falling. Later she again continued thinking, \u201cNow my<br \/>\nhair will grow.\u201d And she succeeded so well that I saw her with a magnificent<br \/>\nhead of hair, and it was she herself who told me this, that this was what she<br \/>\nhad done after being on the point of becoming bald. It is very, very effective.<br \/>\nOnly, while one is making the formation, another part of the mind must not say,<br \/>\n\u201cOh, I am making a formation and it is not going to be successful\u201d, because in<br \/>\nthis way you undo your own work. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.25in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>Cou\u00e9 \u2013 it was at the beginning of the century, I think\u2026(<i>Mother turns to Pavitra<\/i>.) <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><span>\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.5in;line-height:150%'><i><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>(<\/span><\/i><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>Pavitra<i>) I saw him in 1917 or 1918<br \/>\nin Paris<\/i>.<span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='margin:0;text-align:center;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"3\">Page \u2013<br \/>\n5 <\/font> <\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='text-align:center'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:11.0pt'><\/p>\n<hr size=\"2\" width=\"100%\" align=\"center\">\n<p><\/span><\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>Yes,<br \/>\nthat&#8217;s right, the beginning of the century, the first quarter of the century.<br \/>\nYou knew him? <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.5in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>(Pavitra)<span>\u00a0 <\/span><i>In Paris, yes. <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>Ah,<br \/>\nah! tell us about it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.5in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>(Pavitra) <i>I heard one or two of<br \/>\nhis lectures. The method he gave to the sick was to repeat, first every morning<br \/>\nand several times a day, \u201cI am becoming better and better, every day I am<br \/>\nbetter and better, each day I am healthier\u201d, every morning, every evening,<br \/>\nseveral times a day, with conviction, clasping the hands like this\u2026<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>Oh!<br \/>\nIf one lost one&#8217;s temper: \u201cI am becoming better and better, I don&#8217;t lose my<br \/>\ntemper now.\u201d (<i>Laughter<\/i>) <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>(Pavitra) <i>Every day I am becoming<br \/>\nmore and more intelligent<\/i>. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>That&#8217;s<br \/>\nreally good. Why, and if you repeat to a child, if you make him repeat, \u201cI am<br \/>\ngood, day by day more and more.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.25in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>\u201cI am better and better, I am more and more obedient.\u201d Oh, but this is<br \/>\nvery fine. (<i>To a child<\/i>) The other day<br \/>\nyou wanted to know what to do for children who are difficult to bring up. Here<br \/>\nyou are, you can try this. \u201cI am more and more regular at school.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.25in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>And then again, \u201cI don&#8217;t tell lies any more. I shall never lie again.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>(Pavitra) <i>At first it was to be<br \/>\nsaid in the future and afterwards one drew closer to the future and so finished<br \/>\nin the present. <\/i><\/span><i><br \/>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='margin:0;text-align:center;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"3\">Page \u2013<br \/>\n6 <\/font> <\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='text-align:center'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:11.0pt'><\/p>\n<hr size=\"2\" width=\"100%\" align=\"center\">\n<p><\/span><\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>Oh,<br \/>\none finishes in the present. And how long did it take? <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>(Pavitra) <i>It depended on the person<\/i>. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>It<br \/>\ndepends on the case. \u201cI shall not tell lies again, it is my last lie.\u201d (<i>Laughter<\/i>) <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style='margin:0;text-align:justify;text-indent:.5in;line-height:150%'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'>So, we stop. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='margin:0;text-align:center;line-height:150%'>\n<span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-family:\"Times New Roman\"'><font size=\"3\">Page &#8211;<br \/>\n7<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\" style='text-align:center'><span lang=\"EN-US\" style='font-size:11.0pt'><\/p>\n<p>\t<font size=\"2\" color=\"#0000FF\"><br \/>\n\t<span><\/font><\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>5 January 1955 &nbsp; This talk is based upon Sri Aurobindo&#8217;s Bases of \u00a0Yoga, Chapter 3, \u201cIn Difficulty\u201d. &nbsp; Sweet Mother, how can we create&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[112],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3909","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-07-questions-and-answers-volume-07","wpcat-112-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/worksofthemotherandsriaurobindo.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3909","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/worksofthemotherandsriaurobindo.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/worksofthemotherandsriaurobindo.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worksofthemotherandsriaurobindo.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worksofthemotherandsriaurobindo.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3909"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/worksofthemotherandsriaurobindo.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3909\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/worksofthemotherandsriaurobindo.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3909"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worksofthemotherandsriaurobindo.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3909"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worksofthemotherandsriaurobindo.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3909"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}