{"id":6172,"date":"2013-07-13T02:06:14","date_gmt":"2013-07-13T02:06:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost\/?p=6172"},"modified":"2013-07-13T02:06:14","modified_gmt":"2013-07-13T02:06:14","slug":"77-november-15-1965-vol-06-volume-06","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/worksofthemotherandsriaurobindo.org\/index.php\/02-works-of-the-mother\/03-agenda\/06-volume-06\/77-november-15-1965-vol-06-volume-06","title":{"rendered":"-77_November 15_1965.htm"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><H3>November 15, 1965<\/H3><br \/>\n<P align=\"center\"><i>(For some time Mother has been giving Sujata packets of ready-made soups from Germany, Sweden, etc.)<\/i><br \/>\n<P>&#8230; You&#8217;ll become cosmopolitan, my child &#8211; cosmopolitan in taste.<\/p>\n<p><i>(Sujata makes a face)<\/i><\/p>\n<p><P>You don&#8217;t want to? Is there something in your nature that doesn&#8217;t want?<\/p>\n<p><i>(Sujata:) Food, ever since childhood I haven&#8217;t liked eating.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><P>But mon petit, I have never been interested in food! I have never liked<br \/>\neating. When I was small, they had to think up all sorts of tricks to make me<br \/>\neat, to me it was the most absurd and least interesting thing. Well, I know the<br \/>\nfood of every country and have done a comparative study (!) of all cuisines, and<br \/>\nI can be<br \/>\n<P align=\"center\"><font size=\"2\">Page 297<\/font><\/p>\n<hr>\n<p><P>anywhere without it disturbing my body in the least.<br \/>\n<P>It&#8217;s not out of taste for food, it&#8217;s out of taste for &#8230; (how can I put it?) the expansion of consciousness, the elimination of limits, and above all to prevent the slavery of habits &#8211; that&#8217;s a horrible thing. To be the slave of one&#8217;s habits is disgusting. Even when I was very small, that&#8217;s how it was: no slavery. I was told, &#8220;But you must do this, because that&#8217;s the habit,&#8221; and I used to answer in a very little polite way, &#8220;Rubbish!&#8221;&#8230; To do things that way because the habit is to do them that way is no argument to me &#8211; free, free, free! The taste for freedom.<br \/>\n<P>You mustn&#8217;t be a little slave just because you were born from certain parents in such and such a place &#8211; it&#8217;s by chance, not fate!<\/p>\n<p><i>(Sujata:) No, Mother, it&#8217;s mostly the sense of smell. There are certain smells I find very hard to bear.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><P>But you must learn to bear them. Just do this: when you get a shock, stay very quiet and call &#8211; call the Lord or call me, it doesn&#8217;t matter <i>(laughing), <\/i>it has the same effect! (Don&#8217;t go about repeating this!) And then say, &#8220;Give me a widened consciousness,&#8221; that&#8217;s all. And then remain quiet. And then the next time the smell comes, you&#8217;ll notice that, oh, it&#8217;s not so unpleasant, and the third or fourth time, you will feel the Ananda behind it.<br \/>\n<P>I know this from experience.<br \/>\n<P>It&#8217;s quite simply a narrowness in the taste because from your childhood you have been given a certain number of things. You are used to them: &#8220;Then it&#8217;s good&#8221;; you aren&#8217;t used to them: &#8220;Oh, how horrible!&#8221; &#8230; You must learn to see why it&#8217;s there, why it&#8217;s in the world &#8211; everything in the world is for the delight of being, so the delight must be there since it&#8217;s everywhere!<br \/>\n<P>You only have to find it.<\/p>\n<p><i>(Sujata:) But it could be someone else&#8217;s delight!<\/i><\/p>\n<p><P align=\"right\"><i>(Mother laughs)<\/i><br \/>\n<P align=\"center\"><i>***<\/i><br \/>\n<P><i>Towards the end<\/i><br \/>\n<P>You must sleep well. Yes, I have noticed that it&#8217;s important to sleep a long time. As soon as you feel tired, let yourself drift into sleep, don&#8217;t resist. That&#8217;s important. I am saying this from personal<br \/>\n<P align=\"center\"><font size=\"2\">Page 298<\/font><\/p>\n<hr>\n<p><P>experience, because all of a sudden &#8230; When there is a length of time (it lasts an hour, two hours, it depends) during which the atmosphere is all vibrant with this light-force-joy I spoke of the other day, and you are as if &#8230; it&#8217;s absolutely full, absolutely full; and then all of a sudden <i>(gesture of inward plunge), <\/i>and after a time you ask yourself, &#8220;Well, well, where have I been?&#8230;&#8221; There are times like that when you go into a sort of sleep. The first few times, I thought I had lapsed into unconsciousness (although that has rarely happened to me!), but anyway, I wondered what it meant. Then I took a good look and I saw it was a necessary period of assimilation. It&#8217;s very necessary. It&#8217;s in a sort of stillness of the cells&#8217; consciousness that they assimilate the new force. So when it comes, don&#8217;t resist. Generally, it doesn&#8217;t last very long: fifteen minutes, twenty minutes. A period of assimilation. You know, the atmosphere is charged, charged, increasingly charged. 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