{"id":6262,"date":"2013-07-13T02:06:43","date_gmt":"2013-07-13T02:06:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost\/?p=6262"},"modified":"2013-07-13T02:06:43","modified_gmt":"2013-07-13T02:06:43","slug":"28-april-6-1968-vol-09-volume-09","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/worksofthemotherandsriaurobindo.org\/index.php\/02-works-of-the-mother\/03-agenda\/09-volume-09\/28-april-6-1968-vol-09-volume-09","title":{"rendered":"-28_April 6_1968.htm"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><H3>April 6, 1968<\/H3><br \/>\n<P>I didn&#8217;t want to make rules for Auroville, but I am going to be forced to start formulating certain things, because &#8230; there happens to be difficulties. I don&#8217;t know what to do.<br \/>\n<P>What I wanted to say came; it&#8217;s very simple <i>(Mother takes a written note), <\/i>simply like this (it&#8217;s about very small things):<br \/>\n<P><i>&#8220;One must choose between getting drunk and living<\/i><P><i>&nbsp;in Auroville, the two are incompatible.&#8221;<br \/>\n<\/i><br \/>\n<P>It&#8217;s not an innocent drunkenness, I mean it results in acts of violence, it verges on madness.<br \/>\n<P>So of course, if we start along this road, we may also say this <i>(Mother takes another note):<\/i><br \/>\n<P><i>&#8220;One must choose between living in falsehood and <\/i><br \/>\n<P><i>living in Auroville, the two are incompatible.&#8221; <\/i><br \/>\n<P>May it be true!<\/p>\n<p><i>We could say that those who get drunk do it to forget; but one<\/i><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">\n  <font size=\"2\">Page 97<\/font><\/p>\n<hr>\n<p><i>&nbsp;doesn&#8217;t come to Auroville to forget: one comes to Auroville, on<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>&nbsp;the contrary, to remember.<\/i><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><P>Yes, we might rather put it in that form.<br \/>\n<P>But the idea was mostly to insist on the CHOICE. Living in Auroville is a CHOICE. It&#8217;s a choice, an attitude you adopt, a decision you make. Living in Auroville is a choice, you choose a certain life. But once you choose one thing, some others become incompatible&#8230;. At any rate, living in Auroville is an ACTION, a decision you make, an action.<br \/>\n<P>But this <i>(Mother points to her note)<\/i> is a concession to the present state of mankind, because, to tell the truth, in Auroville there should only be individual cases. What I mean is this: there may be people who get drunk and are nonetheless fit to live in Auroville. So we can&#8217;t make a general rule. But if we don&#8217;t make a general rule, on what ground can we say to someone (who&#8217;s been accepted, that&#8217;s the difficulty), &#8220;No, you must change &#8211; either you stop this, or else you can&#8217;t stay in Auroville &#8230;&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p><i>What is said of alcohol can be said of drugs; and it can be said<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>&nbsp;of<br \/>\n  many other things.<\/i><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><P>Many, yes, lots. It&#8217;s only a beginning. You understand, I have seen that we&#8217;re going to be faced with the need &#8230; It&#8217;s the need to impose a choice &#8211; to say, &#8220;You must choose between this and that.&#8221;<br \/>\n<P>It&#8217;s the same with drugs, in some people the effects aren&#8217;t dangerous, or not harmful.<br \/>\n<P>Ultimately, everyone&#8217;s freedom is limited by the fact that it mustn&#8217;t go against others&#8217; freedom. That&#8217;s the limit.<\/p>\n<p><i>Obviously it&#8217;s hard to make general rules.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><P>It&#8217;s impossible.<\/p>\n<p><i>In my case, I remember having taken opium for several years,<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>&nbsp;and<br \/>\n  it did me good, it would soothe me, quiet me. Taking <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>opium now would be absurd, but at the time it did me no<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>&nbsp;harm.<\/i><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><P>But of course! I understand that very well! I see it so clearly, in such a universal way&#8230;. You see, a sentence like this <i>(Mother<\/i><P align=\"center\"><br \/>\n<font size=\"2\">Page 98<\/font><\/p>\n<hr>\n<p><P>&nbsp;<i>shows her note) <\/i>ought to be said to only one individual, that is, &#8220;It&#8217;s like this FOR YOU &#8211; you must choose between overcoming your weakness or habit and living in Auroville, the two can&#8217;t go together.&#8221; But then, it becomes a purely individual question; to another you may well not need to say it.<\/p>\n<p><i>That&#8217;s why the most general formula is to say that any self-forgetfulness is contrary to life in Auroville. One doesn&#8217;t go to Auroville to forget, or to forget oneself &#8211; any self-forgetfulness, in any form.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><P>Ah, but &#8220;self-forgetfulness,&#8221; if you take it from a moral standpoint&#8230;! <i>(Mother laughs)<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Forgetting one&#8217;s true self.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><P>(Mother laughs) The minute one formulates &#8230; It would be more correct to say:<br \/>\n<P>&#8220;Any pursuit of unconsciousness is contrary to life in Auroville.&#8221;<br \/>\n<P>That&#8217;s more general. And if we want to be still more general, we could say,<br \/>\n<P>&#8220;Any movement backward or downward is in<P>&nbsp;contradiction to life in Auroville,<br \/>\nwhich is a life<br \/>\n<P>of ascent towards the future.&quot;<br \/>\n<P>But words &#8230;<br \/>\n<P>Some articles have appeared in newspapers about Auroville&#8217;s foundation, for instance with the theme, &#8220;A utopia on the way to realization.&#8221; So then, there are those who tell you, &#8220;You&#8217;ll never succeed!&#8221; Their argument is, &#8220;They are human beings and they will remain human&#8221; &#8211; that&#8217;s where they&#8217;re wrong. &#8220;Human nature cannot be changed,&#8221; that&#8217;s the basis on which they tell you, &#8220;You won&#8217;t succeed.&#8221; Therefore the only thing needed is not only to accept and to want the future, but to adhere to the will for transformation and progress. As a general formula, that&#8217;s quite fine.<br \/>\n<P>But you see, with drugs, for instance &#8211; take chloroform used for operations:<br \/>\nwell, on every individual chloroform has different effects (they don&#8217;t accept<br \/>\nthat in theory, but it&#8217;s a fact). We have S.<P align=\"center\"><font size=\"2\">Page 99<\/font><\/p>\n<hr>\n<p><P>&nbsp;here, who was an anesthetist, and the upshot of his experience is that<br \/>\nit has a different effect on everyone. Some it hurls into unconsciousness (the<br \/>\nlarge majority, I think), but in certain cases, on the contrary, people are<br \/>\nthrown into another consciousness.<br \/>\n<P>And it&#8217;s the same with everything.<br \/>\n<P>So my note won&#8217;t do, it can only do individually: &#8220;That&#8217;s how it is in your case&#8221;; but in another case, it may not be incompatible at all.<br \/>\n<P>So we&#8217;ll have to deal with it little by little&#8230;. 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